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Quiz 1 - The child's viewpoint

In every family there are times when parents don’t get along. This is natural. But we also know that some parents argue more often or with more aggression.

There are some things that children sometimes think or feel when their parents have arguments or disagreements.

We would like you to think about how you feel when your parents argue or disagree. There are no right or wrong answers. You should just pick the answer which is best for you.

If you can answer all the questions, that’s great. But please do not worry if there are some questions that you can’t or find difficult answer. Just answer the questions that you can.

Who this quiz is for?

This quiz is for any child to complete.

It is aimed at children aged over 8; however, the questions can be tailored towards children aged under 8.

The purpose of this quiz is to help you understand how the child feels. By combining what you learn through this quiz together with the parental quiz, you’ll be able to support the child with the most appropriate action.

The child's viewpoint quiz (PDF - 1.17 MB)

Quiz 2 - Parental relationship (parents together)

For parents who are currently in a relationship or are considering separating.

In every relationship there are times when couples argue. These are natural. But we also know that some parents argue more often or with more aggression. And this has a direct negative impact on the children in the household or relationship.

Who this quiz is for?

This quiz is for parents who are still in a relationship, including those who are considering separation. There is a separate quiz for parents who have separated.

Please answer all questions to the best of your ability, even if they do not seem entirely relevant to you.

Your responses will help you to identify relevant support for you and your partner, or to anonymously measure the effectiveness of the relationship course you are attending.

To help you get the most out of the quiz and the wider support available, please answer honestly and openly.

Parental together quiz (PDF - 886.25 KB)

Quiz 3 - Parental relationship (seperated parents)

For parents who have separated.

When parents separate, there are times when the stresses of co-parenting cause arguments and conflict in the relationship. This is natural.

But we also know that sometimes parents who have separated argue more often or with more aggression. And this has a direct negative impact on the children in the relationship.

Who this quiz is for?

This quiz is for parents who have separated. There is a separate quiz for parents who are still in a relationship, including those who are considering separation.

Please answer all questions to the best of your ability, even if they do not seem entirely relevant to you.

Your responses will help you to identify relevant support for you and your partner, or to anonymously measure the effectiveness of the relationship course you are attending.

To help you get the most out of the quiz and the wider support available, please answer honestly and openly.

Seperated parents quiz (PDF - 918.48 KB)