PFA developing independence: Find the right living arrangements

Where and how your young adult lives is an important decision. Many young people live with their families into their late teens or early twenties before moving out. They often begin in shared flats or student accommodation before moving on to living alone, with friends or partners. However, for some young people with special educational needs or disabilities (SEND), additional support may be needed.

Understanding your young person’s rights

Under 16: Parents and carers are responsible for their child’s living arrangements.

Aged 16 to 17: Young people can leave home with permission, but they may need support if living independently.

When you’re under 18, you usually can’t rent a property by yourself. But you can get support if you’re not living at home anymore.

Aged 18 or over: Young people can rent their own property and make independent housing decisions.

Housing options for young people with SEND

When your young person turns 18, they can rent a home or apply for a mortgage. If they need extra support, they can explore:

Social housing: Council or housing association properties (waiting lists may be long). 

Shared Lives: Finding vulnerable young people and adults a home with a suitable carer so they are able to live more independently and also feel part of a family and a community.

Adapted housing: An occupational therapist (OT) can assess your young person’s needs and may refer them for a Disabled Facilities Grant (DFG) to help make their home more accessible.